REFLECTION
The theme for this reflection is “IT IS TOO MUCH, YOU NEED HELP”. To understand this theme deeply, we must look at its core keywords. “Too much” describes a load, work, or responsibility that goes beyond what a single person can carry without breaking. “Help” refers to trusted support, assistance, or shared labour provided by others to lighten a heavy burden. The key lesson in this passage is that God never designed any single individual to carry all responsibilities alone; recognising our human limits and accepting help is a sign of wisdom, not weakness.
The background of this Scripture takes place in the wilderness shortly after the Israelites escaped from Egypt. Moses, acting as the sole leader, spent his entire day sitting from morning until evening to judge disputes and settle arguments for millions of people. Observing this exhausting routine, his father-in-law, Jethro, stepped in to offer a vital intervention.
Recognising the Danger of Burnout
The first major lesson from the text is the danger of carrying burdens alone. When Jethro watched Moses trying to handle every single problem by himself, he did not offer praise for Moses’ hard work; instead, he offered a stern warning. Jethro told him, “What you are doing is not good. You and these people who come to you will only wear yourselves out. The work is too heavy for you; you cannot handle it alone” (Exodus 18:17-18).
In our modern lives, we often fall into the same trap as Moses. We take on too many tasks at work, at home, and in our communities, believing that nobody else can do the job quite as well. However, God calls us to be good stewards of our physical and mental health. When we stretch ourselves past our breaking point, we harm not only our own well-being but also the quality of our service to others. A helpful reminder of God’s care for our limitations is found in Psalm 103:14, which says, “For he knows how we are formed, remember that we are dust.”
Delegating and Sharing the Load
The second lesson highlights the importance of teamwork, delegation, and trust. Jethro did not just tell Moses to stop; he provided a practical solution. He advised Moses to select capable, trustworthy, and God-fearing men to handle the smaller disputes while leaving only the most difficult matters for Moses to bring before God. Jethro explained, “That will make your load lighter, because they will share it with you” (Exodus 18:22).
This principle of shared labour is reflected throughout Scripture. No single part of the body of Christ is meant to function on its own. As Ecclesiastes 4:9 wisely notes, “Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labour.” When we humble ourselves and allow others to help, we create opportunities for them to use their God-given talents while preventing burnout in our own lives.
Conclusion
In summary, the narrative of Moses and Jethro teaches us that trying to do everything by ourselves is neither sustainable nor pleasing to God. We must learn to recognise our human limits, accept wise counsel, and share our burdens with others.
As a call to action, take some time today to look honestly at your schedule, responsibilities, and emotional state. If you feel overwhelmed and find yourself thinking that everything depends entirely on you, remember that it is okay to pause. Identify areas where you can delegate tasks, ask for assistance from trusted friends or colleagues, and lean more fully on the supportive community God has placed around you.
Prayer
Heavenly Father, thank You for reminding us that we are human and that our strength has limits. Forgive us for the times we rely entirely on our own power and refuse help, leading us to exhaustion. Grant us the wisdom to recognise when a load is too heavy, the humility to delegate and accept support from others, and the grace to trust that You are always in control. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.
Jean-Paul Agidi







Leave a comment